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Class 1: The Core Model

Homework & Foundations

Homework

  1. Look for moments this week when you can easily enjoy something just a little bit more. Eating a bite of sushi a little more slowly, or letting your attention linger just a moment more on the warmth of sunlight when you step outside. Make a note of it when you do, mentally or written.
  2. Read Common Blockers below. If any jump out, spend 15 minutes investigating; ask Claude/ChatGPT about your specific symptoms, talk to a doctor if you suspect anything.
  3. Read Foundations below: How's your sleep, really? Exercise? Do you feel connected? No judgment, just noticing.

These topics are so important to wellbeing but don't fit into lectures easily due to their highly individualized nature. We will discuss these topics briefly in Session 2, but most of this work is done on your own time.

Part 1: Common Blockers

These conditions are common, often gradual, and can make you miserable while you assume "this is just how life is." Worth investigating if any resonate.

Sleep & Energy

Blood Sugar & Hormones

Gut & Inflammation

Environmental

How to investigate

Useful apps for tracking: Bearable (correlating symptoms with factors), Cronometer (food/nutrient tracking). I personally prefer direct sensory attention, but many find these helpful for pattern detection.


Part 2: Foundations

These aren't the "interesting" practices we'll cover in class, but they're essential.

Sleep & Circadian Rhythm

The evidence here is boringly strong. Poor sleep affects mood, emotional regulation, inflammation, and cognitive function more than almost anything else.

Light exposure is the main controller of your circadian rhythm (sleep, metabolism, immunity, and more). Most people are getting it backwards: too little bright light during the day, too much artificial light at night.

If you work indoors under fluorescent lights and then stare at screens until bed, you're giving your circadian system almost no usable timing information. This alone can cause fatigue, mood issues, and poor sleep even with adequate sleep duration.

Exercise

Also boringly well-supported. Regular exercise is as effective for depression as medication in many studies, with additional benefits for anxiety, cognitive function, and stress resilience.

Social Connection

We won't focus on this in class (it's a whole other domain), but: loneliness is a health risk comparable to smoking. Co-regulation with safe others is one of the most powerful nervous system interventions. If you're isolated, addressing that may matter more than any practice we cover. Thanks to Praxis Community University for giving us a push in the right direction here.

A note on medication

This class focuses on practices you can do yourself. Medication and practices aren't mutually exclusive. Use whatever tools you need!